“To Truly Love Others One Must Begin With Themselves” – Ancient Proverb…. But how do we do that?

Hey guys,

I hope you are having a kick ass weekend and have to ask you guys to wait until Monday for the awesome express, because we have some cool stuff from Dr. Tony Alessandra! And also because I got side tracked this week, So I hadn’t had time to write it all up, but I will send it out to you by Monday, latest.

Okay so yes, I was reading Dr. Noah St.John’s book, The secret code of success, and he said this in the interview (if you opted in you got it)… That true 3% success stories had other people believe in them, and he calls them, the loving mirrors.

So I wanted to go ahead and make sure you guys understand how to. There’s a bit of a process, which I am doing, but it goes a lil something like this.

First and foremost, write out everything you think about yourself in a negative manner, really wale on yourself here. Go all out.

After this, start writing up some good things about you, and ask a few friends to tell you some of your strengths. At the end pick a friend whom you trust (not the same as the one who told you your strengths) and get them to read it… Almost always your friend will tell you that you are being daft and that negative point of view of yourself isn’t you.

This leads up to the next part which is to write it up and counter that mental bully by showing facts.

“Your not gonna succeed, cos you are lame and no one likes you” is one I had for a while. My response is this.

“Well if that was true why do I have so many friends that I love and love me, why do I always somehow succeed? Why am I nick named “The awesome” by so many people? huh huh huh?”

And that voice shuts up.

Yes all successful people are a bit schizophrenic!!!

So enclosing, write up your biggest negative self talks and counter them with questions and facts!

Later Days,

Adil

P.S. I know some of you have already but those who haven’t can you please write up some of the strengths you guys think I possess?

Thank you!